Every morning, my wife and I read Jesus Calling by Sarah Young. The devotions provide a framework to help us share our daily encounters with God and discuss and pray about what God is doing in our lives. But recently as we read our devotion, we had a different reaction:
“Make friends with problems in your life. Though many things feel random and wrong, remember that I am sovereign over everything. … The best way to befriend your problems is to thank Me for them. This simple act opens your mind to the possibility of benefits flowing from your difficulties. You can even give persistent problems nicknames, helping you to approach them with familiarity rather than with dread.” — Jesus Calling edited
The phrases that caught our attention were:
- Make friends with problems in your life.
- You can even give persistent problems nicknames.
As we read the part about giving our persistent problems nicknames we both started laughing.
“Nicknames? What a strange idea!” So, for the next few moments we called out problems and attached silly names and each time we laughed some more. What if our problems already have names? Do we rename them to protect the innocent, uh, the guilty? More laughter.
After we calmed down, we read the rest of the devotion and learned a valuable lesson. “Every problem can teach you something, transforming you little by little into the masterpiece I created you to be. The very same problem can become a stumbling block over which you fall, if you react with distrust and defiance. The choice is up to you and you will have to choose many times whether to trust Me or defy Me.”
Every problem can teach me something or be a stumbling block. The choice is up to me so my really persistent problem only has one nickname and that name is, (gulp) Larry.
Problems happen but the solution is not as simple as learning quick fixes.
The root of my problem inevitably leads to the space between my ears and to the depths of my soul: Attitude and Spirit.
- I am the one who must make choices as to my attitude in dealing with problems.
- I am the one who must make choices as to what and who controls my response.
Therefore: I choose to acknowledge that my problems include me and how I face them. I choose to acknowledge that I need God in my life to provide direction in the midst of turmoil. I choose to acknowledge that God created me to need other people in my life so I must continually find creative ways to “‘Love the lord my God with all my heart, all my soul, all my strength, and all my mind.’ And, ‘Love my neighbor as myself.’” — adapted from Luke 10:27
If I can learn to make better choices about me and my relationship with God then problems don’t disappear, but they don’t control my life or dampen my faith. Every problem can teach me or become a stumbling block. The choice is up to me, my attitude, and my walk with God.
Later that day I read 100 Bible Verses Everyone Should Know by Heart by Robert J. Morgan. The verse for the day was: “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you! Trust in the lord always, for the lord God is the eternal Rock.” — Isaiah 26:3–4
Morgan wrote about four key phrases:
- Perfect peace: The original Hebrew says that God will keep in shalom which conveys the idea of wholeness, quietness of spirit, safety, blessing, and happiness of heart.
- Thoughts fixed on You: Fix your thoughts on Jehovah; all other concerns shrink to the proper perspective. Col 3:2: “Set your minds on what is above, not on what is on earth.”
- Trust in the Lord always: We trust God more and more. Faith is the Bible’s antidote to fear and faith grows stronger as we focus it on Christ instead of on crisis. We acknowledge the difficulty but keep our focus on the Deliverer.
- Eternal rock: As we keep our minds on God, trust God, and experience God’s perfect peace, we find strength for daily needs. We have strength sufficient, strength eternal.
Problems will always be a part of life but how we respond, learning a valuable lesson or allowing the problem to become a stumbling block, is our choice.
God’s promise in the midst of even persistent problems: “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you! Trust in the lord always, for the lord God is the eternal Rock.”
About Larry Davies
Larry Davies is currently the Lynchburg, Virginia District Superintendent for 89 United Methodist Churches. He has been the pastor of small, medium, and large churches. For many years, Larry managed and trained sales people in the automobile business. He is also the author of Live the Light: Five Weeks to a Light that Shines and three other books. Larry is the founder of Sowing Seeds of Faith, a worldwide prayer ministry and writing ministry, www.SowingSeedsofFaith.com. His columns and blog posts appear in several newspapers, magazines, and websites. Larry is a graduate of Virginia Tech and received his Master of Divinity at Duke University. Mell, Larry’s wife, recently retired from Concord Elementary School. Larry’s oldest son Stephen is married to Brandy, and they have a one-year-old bundle of energy, Jackson. Larry’s daughter Lisa is engaged to be married to Bobby. He and Mell also have a lively but older Springer Spaniel named Daisy.