Recently, Mell and I moved from a three story house full of furniture, mementos, and stuff to a one floor, 55 plus condominium less than half the size. So, in addition to the normal stress and strain of moving we also faced a serious dilemma of how to reduce our possessions by more than 50%.
How do you eliminate 1/2 your furniture, 1/2 of your mementos (many of them gifts), 1/2 of your pictures and paintings, plus more than 1/2 of all your books? The process was painful but there were huge lessons learned and I’m grateful for the experience. Jesus taught about the importance of not being too dependent upon money or possessions in Matthew: The story of The Rich Man.
At one point, Jesus said, “If you want to be perfect, go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” – Mat. 19:21
With that story in mind, Mell and I knew we had an opportunity.
We could sell everything or we could give it away.
Although the decision was painful at first, we chose to give everything away.
Every day for weeks, I would fill up my car or rent a U-Haul and take everything to Park View Community Mission which provides badly needed food and other help for 500 to 700 families each month. Throughout the hall we placed mementos, dishes, furniture, tools, lawn equipment, books, and pictures. The sign simply said, “Free.” Within hours nearly everything was gone.
As word circulated, people would gather. At times they would linger picking up something, then putting it down. Some would ask, “Are you serious? Is this really free?” Another said, “I can give this as a present to my sister.” Still another would smile and simply say, “Thank you.”
At one point we brought in a bookcase and placed the giveaways with the same sign: “Free!” The objects were soon gone but one person saw the sign, picked up the bookcase and started to walk out. We had to stop him with an apology: “Sorry. We didn’t mean the bookcase.”
So, what were the lessons?
- Pain can turn to joy. At first, the decision to part with your things and give them away is painful but at some point in the process, giving generously and creatively can be a real joy.
- Possessions will often possess you. The more you have, the more you feel the need to care for, manage, and protect your stuff. Letting possessions go can be a liberating experience that frees up your time and your energy and restores your sense of peace.
- Stuff is just stuff. Material things provide little of lasting value but kindness and generosity have the potential to change lives eternally and provide opportunities to share your faith.
Jesus said, “I tell you the truth, it is very hard for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of Heaven. I’ll say it again—it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God!” – Mat. 19:23–24
Jesus describes a vivid picture: It’s hard enough to go through the eye of a needle but imagine trying to slip through while refusing to let go of all your stuff. Impossible!
But here is my favorite part. Astounded, the disciples asked. “Then who in the world can be saved?” Jesus looked at them intently and said, “Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But with God everything is possible.” – Mat. 19:25–26
In many ways, these past few weeks were some of the more strenuous and difficult weeks ever. But I must admit, this time has also been one of my most fulfilling and spiritual experiences.
After hearing Jesus, Peter said, “We’ve given up everything to follow you. What will we get?”
Jesus replied, “I assure you that everyone who has given up houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or property, for my sake, will receive a hundred times as much in return and will inherit eternal life. But many who are the greatest now will be least important then, and those who seem least important now will be the greatest then.” – Parts of Mat. 19:27–30
About Larry Davies
Larry Davies is currently the Lynchburg, Virginia District Superintendent for 89 United Methodist Churches. He has been the pastor of small, medium, and large churches. For many years, Larry managed and trained sales people in the automobile business. He is also the author of Live the Light: Five Weeks to a Light that Shines and three other books. Larry is the founder of Sowing Seeds of Faith, a worldwide prayer ministry and writing ministry, www.SowingSeedsofFaith.com. His columns and blog posts appear in several newspapers, magazines, and websites. Larry is a graduate of Virginia Tech and received his Master of Divinity at Duke University. Mell, Larry’s wife, recently retired from Concord Elementary School. Larry has two children and two grandchildren and a lively but older Springer Spaniel named Daisy.